Sunday 10 June 2012

WHEN MEN FAIL…DISASTER!

Dana Air crash aftermath
"'Look at every problem we. have in our society. At the root of that problem, is a man who failed, even though, ironically, he got up that morning, wanting to be successful. None of them wanted to fail. That is the challenge before us. We will not change our nation until we change our men…' That is what we have to do, to prevent incidences like this, and many more like that from continuing, we must change our men, beginning with each one of us".
We have a song in the Christian Men’s Network Nigeria that’s been playing in my head these past week or so. Written by one of our own Daniel Nzekwue and performed by our all-men choir, the Mighty Men of Praise, the lyrics go like this:
“When men praise                                                                                                                      Dreams are fulfilled                                                                                                           When men praise                                                                                                                     Families restore                                                                                                                    When men praise                                                                                                                     The Home is warm                                                                                                            When men praise                                                                                                                  The enemy’s defeated…”

Ironically, as I meditate on the song we have joyfully sang these past few years, what kept coming to me is what happens when men fail. When men fail to praise and to do all the things men are assigned to do. The inescapable answer is: disaster. Yes, disaster writ large!And it didn’t begin with us.

Adam, the very first man that lived failed. He not only failed to rein in the appetite of his wife for exotic fruits, he failed to resist the temptation to join her in the perfidy of disobedience. The result was the curse, which all of mankind inherited.

When the Israelites were nearing the promised land, God, wanting to motivate them with the the sheer blessedness of the land that was soon to become theirs, asked them to send twelve men to spy the land. Remember, these were men who are leaders. But when they came back; the majority report filed by ten of the twelve failed to see what God and their other two compatriots saw, a land flowing with milk and honey. Instead they saw a land that devours its people. Instead of seeing the then inhabitants as “bread” for them, given the might of god that was available unto them, they saw themselves as “suya” to the enemy. The result: years of wandering in the wilderness and the death of an entire generation but two.
The same scenario is still playing out today; men failing and families, communities and nations reeling from the repercussions. Just look around you, dear reader and you’ll see tell-tale sign of men who failed.

Of course, the most recent evidence of the failure of men is the Dana Airline crash into the densely populated Lagos suburb of Iju-Ishaga. Ah yes, the minister is a woman and so has overall responsibility, but look deeper and you’ll find a legion of men who failed her, failed the system, failed the nation.

Investigations are still on and it would therefore be premature to apportion blame and I am certainly not that inclined, But strictly in context, what we already know about the circumstances that surround the crash is, to say the least, a wake-up call. Governor Godswill Akpabio for instance said that he had recently personally called the Chief Executive of Dana Air to warn him about the state of airworthiness of the airline’s fleet. This is not the place to ask whether he could have done much more than that; and, if he had whether the disaster could have been averted.

A Dana Air female staff has also been widely reported to have stated that the crew was forced to fly the aircraft, against all protests about the health of the aircraft. She even said that the crew that flew was put together when the assigned team refused. The Obakpolor Investigative Panel will hopefully be able to confirm the truth or otherwise of this assertion.
But one thing is clear, if you look beneath all of these and you’ll find at its very root, a man who failed! Check out the trunk, the branches, the leaves, you’ll find men who failed to do take their place in the divine plan; men who charted their course away from God’s assignment.

Dr Patrick Morley of Man in the Mirror Ministries put it this way: “Look at every problem we. have in our society. At the root of that problem, is a man who failed, even though, ironically, he got up that morning, wanting to be successful. None of them wanted to fail. That is the challenge before us. We will not change our nation until we change our men…” That is what we have to do, to prevent incidences like this, and many more like that from continuing, we must change our men, beginning with each one of us.

Men’s Summit 2012 is a good place to start, or, if you have started, to continue. With Rediscovering Manhood as theme, the Summit, which is organized annually by Christ Chapel International Churches through Christian Men’s Network Nigeria, opens in Lagos, Thursday.  Chief hosted by Rev Dr Tunde Joda, senior pastor of the church and president of the network the conference will feature Dr Christopher Kolade and Pastor Taiwo Odukoya as guest ministers. Venue is the refurbished, air-conditioned auditorium of CCIC, Surulere Centre at Okanlawon Ajayi Street, off Masha, Surulere, Lagos.

Dr Kolade, Chairman of Subsidy Reinvestment and Empowerment Programme, SURE-P, is a well-known minister of the word of God, whose integrity credentials are among our nation’s few consensus. He is an exemplary man from whom every man can learn a lot about Christian manhood.

Pastor Taiwo Odukoya, senior pastor and founder of Fountain of Life Church, is also very involved in ministry to men. He established and has run Discovery for Men of which he is president about 15 years ago, and has consistently held quarterly rallies since then.  

Also ministering at the summit is Rev Dr John Akachie Ahamzie, senior pastor, Holy Fire Overflow Ministries, who has presented a weekly radio programme, with the provocative title, “What’s All This Noise About Sex” for about five years now. He is a teacher of purity, power and prosperity. He will be ministering specifically on Rediscovering Sex. Rev Ahamzie will be partnering in that session with a veteran marriage counselor, Rev Dan Ibekwe, Chairman, CCIC Church Council.  

Other men of God slated to minister at the Men’s Summit 2012, which will run all of eight sessions over four days - three each on Friday 15th, and Saturday 16th; and one each in the evening of Thursday 14th and Sunday 17 include  Rev Dr Ronald Eyime, International Optometrist of the Year 2003, and governorship aspirant who went on to serve as a commissioner in Delta state; and Rev Ajibola Oluyede, a lawyer, politician and business man who has been described as a man of the Word, who understands the world.
Come, let’s reclaim our place of responsible leadership in the divine plan.

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